Did I always know that my dad wasn't my "dad"? Yes, at times I think I knew. Other times, no, I thought my parents were too "perfect" to have a story like this in their closet. When I tell you that I was raised by "perfect" parents, of course, I wasn't, but it took me years to understand that they had made mistakes. I remember I was in high school, turning 18. I had a pretty serious boyfriend (Ray) who had a different relationship with his parents than I did. His parent